Introducing Dogs
Planning = Success
Bringing two dogs together for the first time can be a lovely experience — or a stressful one — depending on how you go about it. Whether you’re hoping to add a new dog to your household or planning a meet-up between friends’ dogs, making sure the introduction is safe, calm, and well thought out can make all the difference.
Approach with care:
Mind the Size Difference
One of the most important — and most overlooked — factors for dog introductions is considering size. Sometimes, when a larger dog interacts with a smaller dog, even a playful nudge can cause problems. It’s not about one dog being “bad” — it’s about general physics.
Here are some tips if you're introducing a large dog to a smaller one:
Take it slow
Supervise them closely
Keep their first interactions short and sweet, ending on a positive note
A reminder - it’s easier to prevent a bad experience than it is to undo one.
Start Some Type of Barrier
If you want to give dogs a chance to get to know each other without risk - Use a barrier.
A slatted fence, a mesh gate, or even sturdy garden fencing can allow dogs to sniff, observe, and show you how they’re feeling — without the pressure of close, physical contact.
Watch for:
Loose, waggy tails (a moving tail does not mean a dog is happy, the next two should also be present)
Relaxed body language
Playful interest like sniffing and moving about in an effort to “learn” about the other
What to avoid: If either dog shows a tight mouth, stiff body posture, raised hackles, or growling — these are signs that more time (and space) is needed. More importantly if you see either dog FREEZE, use a happy voice and get them moving (try not to pull back on their leash).
Should You Use a Lead?
This one gets definitely has opinions — but here’s my take on the subject:
Yes, use leads them! But, with care.
Leads can absolutely help with management and prevent things from escalating quickly, but they can also cause tension if used incorrectly. A dog on a tight or tangled lead may feel frustrated or anxious, especially during an unfamiliar greeting.
Some tips:
Keep your lead short (so you're close to your dog and ready to interject, if needed)
Keep the lead loose
Avoid pulling or adding pressure during the greeting — use a calm, encouraging voice
Be ready to calmly separate and try again if needed
If either dog can’t remain calm on lead, it might not be the right time to attempt an introduction just yet.
I recommend walking the dogs across the road from one another, parallel. This will give them a chance to notice each other while keeping them moving helps to prevent stress from building up. If all goes well, gradually ease closer — without rushing any of this process.
Dog’s Age Counts, Too
Introducing an energetic young pup to an older, more reserved dog takes extra care.
Senior dogs may be dealing with tiredness, pain, mobility issues, or simply a lower tolerance for energetic greetings. Puppies often miss social cues and can overwhelm older dogs, without meaning to.
Here’s what helps:
Let the puppy burn off energy before the introduction using play
Keep the puppy on lead and redirect them if needed
Have someone focus on supporting the senior dog with treats and gentle praise while they acclimate to the puppy’s presence
Keep the interactions short and watch for signs of stress
This kind method of introduction can work beautifully — if each dog’s needs are respected.
When in Doubt, Reach Out
If you’re unsure how your dog will react, or if you’ve had tricky experiences in the past, don’t go it alone. I help dog owners in Ayr and across Scotland plan safe, positive introductions that set everyone up for success.
Whether it’s your dog’s first social experience, or you’re navigating a complex dynamic, I’m here to help and make it smoother.
Let’s help our dogs build calm, confident relationships — one thoughtful introduction at a time. 🐾
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📬 Get in touch for support with dog behaviour, introductions, and positive training.
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